18 years,18 lessons

 18 years,18 lessons 

*play talk talk by cannons as the bg music while reading this, it's a request guys. Maybe I'm a bad music recommender, but yeah   Bear with me! 

 How starstruck am I that I can't tell myself as a teen anymore! Aaahh it's so freaking .....Though I am not any form of a popular kid with many achievements or fame. But yeah, don't take me that easy.

Definitely, it's not like many other days, but not even that special to me cuz I don't spend the day with much coziness or celebrating with much hype. *keeping this blog as short as possible because I don't want to babble and ruin your day af:”. Anyhow, I have attempted to create a list of the 18 most stargazing lessons that I got from the time span of 6,574 days! 

                                               

              *dark teal is my favorite color because of the fact that no flower exist in this world that looks like dark teal* 

1. Saying goodbye to my comfort character: committing a small thing that scares you and makes you  take risks to take you away from your comfort zone.

2. If you don't work hard now then when:

i really believe in this(ik , it dosent work for me every time) and the veracity of this statement has proven to me a few times over the year. You can do absolutely anything if you work hard enough for it. and don't get me wrong, I mean work hard as in the sense of you want sth so bad you’ll get 3 hours of sleep and skip lunch to go to the library every day. To me, there's no such thing as mere luck when it comes to getting what you want, and if you aren't where you want to be, it's simply because you're not working hard enough for it. It's really that simple.no excuse!

3. Being too humble and soft can cost you, I'm telling you!: Yes, that's a very bittersweet thing cause not everyone will pay you the same!   

4. The feeling of not being loved: I think this is the most underrated thing that one of my friend got tired of hearing me say to her! Naahhh, i know ya’all love me,keep loving me like this , and also love you to the moon and back!

5. Listen more than talk and be a straightforward person: Just because someone good person, just because you care about them, doesn't mean they won't burn you!

6. Accept the way you are!

7. do what you want and apologize for nothing don't be the depression cherry: I'm still stuck in this overthinking stuff, still can't get out of this … I don't know why! Maybe when I will stop doubting myself! 

8. Always keep a clear intention whatever you are doing: so a few days back I saw a post on the comparison between getting either inspired or envious. It depends on you how you take someone's success/failure/perfectionism and imperfections. When you watch one's success story, it's up to you how to take it, getting jealous is sth that is a dark side of your character hence…so don't keep a duality in yourself.

9. Love like a mofo at the end of the day, all it matters is the size of your heart! : Love comes in all shapes and sizes but trust somehow remains the same. Always be vulnerable. If you love someone tell them. Having a heart of steel is not a choice for me :). But as time goes on, you will realize that some people are worth putting your heart out on the line for. Let this heart be full of love and constantly make sure people know you love them. 

10. Allah is always with you, whether you feel lost or lost your patience, his remembrance of him keeps me moving and motivating as well

11. Love your parents more than anything, this only thing that is free and peaceful for sure: do I need to elaborate this? 

12. just ignore the badass people, maybe this sounds a Lil bit offended, but this can make you feel freer and avoid the melancholic version of yourself

13. too much pessimism is bad!

14. Change! Believe me, its the only mantra of success

15. Take a stand and be your own brand

16. Not to blame someone even if it's their own fault

17. Paint, paint, and paint! : aaahh it's not about a hobby or something very passionate about, but it gives me peace and relief. I paint in my study hours, working hours, and depressing moments  too.

18. C’est la vie: In the end,things won't be the same as always going to go the way one wants. You wont be fairly treated every time. That's just the way this world works. Just brush it off,pick yourself up, tell c’est la vie- such a life,and get back on the grind

 

This whole blog is about the conventional system of life, being a good soul blah blah blah….but life does not goes like the curve equn. You get two points of the sin curve, either rise or fall. So once you are on the top of your success ladder, defn that will be a proud moment for you, and simultaneously you will be on your failure stages and frequent breakdowns will make u feel unworthy. So…… these are the stages that sometimes you win, sometimes you learn!